Ladies have been advised never to think that marriage will make a man a gentleman.
This advice was dished out to ladies by renowned Ghanaian counselor and relationship coach, Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli.
According to him, being a gentleman has more to do with his character, t he way he was raised adding that marriage doesn’t make any man a gentleman.
He stated that if he is not gentle with you whilst dating, there is a greater possibility he won’t change.
Giving an example to buttress his point, he said if he is slapping you now as a boyfriend, he might be beating you up as a husband.
His post reads;
“Ladies, he is a man by birth. Being a gentleman has more to do with his character, the way he was raised. Marriage doesn’t make any man a gentleman; if he is not gentle with you whilst dating, there is a greater possibility he won’t change. If he is slapping you now as a boyfriend, he might be beating you up as a husband.
Your boyfriend today is like your child, what you allow before marriage will be the order of the day or worse after you have been joined together.”
Source: ghgossip.com
