A renowned marriage counsellor, Lady Rev. Dr Charlotte Oduro has cautioned ladies to stop rich married men because they will end up becoming side chicks forever and not wives.
She noted that these rich married men just enjoy company with young girls but will never leave their wives to marry them.
In her view, these rich married men will give them all their monies and will eventually waste their time because they already have families.
She wondered why some ladies just want to be baby Mamas to rich men just to acquire properties when their wives have all the plenty of cars and houses at their disposal.
She likened ladies who yearn to be baby Mama’s to some rich men to being very ‘cheap’, therefore advising them to get boyfriends with vision and build future with them.
“Stop chasing married men who are rich, they go use you as side chicks, take you to Dubai, buy you the car, but the woman at home, you can never be her, the men will tell you I want a young girl he’s just wasting your time, his wife and children are home, they are there.
The young girls will say I want to be the baby Mama, he has houses and he gave you one and you are content, and you are flaunting it around that you are the baby Mama, you are being cheap excuse me to use the word, because there is another woman at home who is owning everything, why don’t you get your own guy and build a future with the guy, and own whatever you want to own.”. she said during a recent submission.
She further advised girls to build something for themselves and stop dreaming of being with men who have cars adding that it will be difficult for men to bluff girls if they know what they are worth.
She urged ladies to support their ‘poor’ boyfriends who have a vision of going into businesses.
“Please women should stop going for, I want the man who has money, go for a guy who has brains and is not lazy, a guy who is smoking and drinking, a guy who is enjoying his father’s money and two years to come the guy has nothing, but there are guys from poor homes, they have brains, they are working, they are praying, they have vision, they are working it out. You are beautiful, educated help them.
I want a guy who has a jeep, today jeep will be an old one tomorrow. Now they are doing iPhone 8 and what have you, every time things change, build yourself and stop being choosy, ladies who go for the stars, they will sleep with you and leave you. If you want fame, you create your own fame, somebody’s son is a star today, can’t the man celebrate you.”, she further advised.
Source: ghgossip.com
