Marriage is a good thing, and it is said that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. No religion on earth is against marriage, as it is only in marriage the ‘legitimate’ procreation is good. There are several mistakes people who are ready for marriage do that hinders their progress in life.
A bad marriage is a bad omen as they may block your chances to progress in life. Thinking of marriage, kindly consider these points:
#1 Ladies, do not marry a man who has no job: Imagine marrying someone who has no job, no stable income, how good will your life be. How are you going to fend for yourselves, we are not saying the ladies can’t help but it is a man’s duty to cater for his home. With daily expenses rocketing every now and then, how can a jobless fellow fend for his family? Biblically, before God created Eve, he gave Adam something to do. So marrying a man without a job shouldn’t be an option. Even if the job doesn’t pay well, it is still a stable income. So ladies if you want to marry someone without a job, kindly ask him to get a job first, or you can even help him secure a job then you take it from there.
#2 To the men, beware you don’t marry a Delilah. Marriage is a lifetime journey and it should be beyond beauty. Marriage should be about character. When choosing a wife, take time to understand what you actually yearn in a woman. Just don’t rely on outer beauty for marriage. You can marry the most beautiful lady on earth, with time her looks will change because she will grow old, but her character will not change. Young men, beware of ‘Delilahs’ as they will bring you down like Sampson!!!
#3 Don’t marry someone because you want to change the person. It is far better and prudent to stay single than to marry a devil. Thinking of marrying to change your spouse, then my dear sister or dear brother, kindly re-analyze the situation and rescind your decision. If the person can’t change before marriage, then don’t expect him or her to change after marriage. You can’t change a person who is not willing to change.
#4 Don’t marry a ‘foolish’ fellow: Someone who pretends can be likened to a ‘fool’. You can’t pretend to like something whiles deep down you don’t like it. Marrying such a person will make marriage life more of a hell than a blessing. Before the marriage, he or she can follow you to anywhere and do anything for you, thinking they will get you. Once they get you, you are doomed. They will frustrate you till you get fed up and consider divorce. By their fruits, you shall know them, so watch out for pretenders.
These and many others are some of the things one should consider when thinking about marriage. We wish all who are ready to marry success and hope their marriages become very fruitful.
Source: ghgossip.com
