Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Frank Edem Adofoli has advised social media users against fighting their fiancees.
According to him, the only thing an individual fights for is what is theirs- what you own, and you must have something which shows it belongs to you.
He stated that an individual can fight for his or her wife or husband because there is evidence of marriage, but not a boyfriend or girlfriend who can replace them anytime.
He made this known in a post on his official Facebook page which reads;
” “The only thing you fight for is what is yours; what you own, and you must have something which shows it belongs to you. You can fight for your wife or husband because there is evidence of marriage, but not a boyfriend or girlfriend who can replace you anytime. No one fights for a gift; it is something which comes willingly from the heart. It is not an award or honour you earn as a result of your performance.
There are somethings you can’t force, these include relationships and friendships. If you have to force it then its best you leave it. You only enjoy it when its real, and when its effortless; but it hurts when it’s fake, and that is when you force it” – Counselor Adofoli”
Source: ghgossip.com