Actress Nadia Buari thinks it is time people stop living for the approval of others.

The mother of four in a long post expresses how we should learn to do our bit like a people and leave the part where we feel the onus is on us to be responsible for something someone may have said.

Nadia in the past years has been living by this apparently, we can recall all that has gone down with her relating to her kids and her relationships with Essien and Jim Iyke. One thing that cannot go unnoticed is how she keeps to herself and does little to respond to any of them.

She wrote on Instagram;

“From an early age, we work to get approval, whether it was proving to our parents that we could ride a bike without training wheels, or taking our first step—caring what other people think seems evitable.

“Through the years it can become a problem for us, as it can cripple us emotionally and spiritually.”

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From an early age we work to get approval, whether it was proving to our parents that we could ride a bike without training wheels, or taking our first step—caring what other people think seems evitable. Through the years it can become a problem for us, as it can cripple us emotionally and spiritually. We need to get to the point where we don’t care what the media says, how colleagues feel about us, or live in state of constant fear or agony of what others think. The other person is not going to worry about it, or stay awake at night upset that you’re offended. U can’t be responsible for other people’s words, actions, or decisions as hurtful as they can be. We all want to be congratulated for a job well-done from even acquaintances, but what happens when they don’t, or you are not acknowledged in some way. Yes, it’s painful, but now it’s time to regroup, refocus, and rise above petty people, things, sin, and caring what others think of you. They don’t know your back story, but God does. Worrying about what others think is human, but when it’s to a point where our joy is being choked, then we need to become proactive, not reactive. Take people out of your courtroom of justice, and offer them to God, and also humble yourself. It's simply not worth it for your health, or hindering your walk–period!

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One other thing we cannot fathom is why she has decided to hide the faces of her kids, could there be any reason for it?

 

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