Ghanaian actress cum lifestyle coach, Deborah N. Diamond has advised young people to desist from getting too attached to friends they call “besties”. especially when they are in a relationship with another.
There are some relationships that have crashed due to the interference of friends labeled as “besties”. A lot of people have been following the new trend of getting more attached to their best friends than to their soul mates.
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Lifestyle coach Miss Diamond has criticized the new trend of getting more attached to a best friend than one’s partner. According to her, this is breaking a lot of marriages and relationships.
“You are in a relationship and you have developed a strong interest in someone with the tag besties. Look, it is called emotional infidelity! Cheating is not only flesh-to-flesh sex. If you cannot restrict yourself to one person, do not be in a relationship”. She asserted.
“If you are not ready for marriage or relationship, you can move on with your bestie life but the moment you accept to be in a relationship, this intensive emotional attachment to be besties whether male or female may have a great ramification of your relationship and hence young people must avoid this bestie syndrome to have a fruitful marriage or relationship”.
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Miss Diamond has also advised people to weigh the variables before considering having a bestie they might get too attached to to the detriment of their relationships.
“Before you can entertain certain friendships outside your marriage or relationship, ask yourself, if we exchange situations, will I be jealous of partner talking to another person?. You should also ask yourself whether you can tell everything you are doing with the person your partner. If you are satisfied with your answers then you can move ahead” Miss Diamond noted
Source: www.ghgossip.com
