Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Frank Adofoli has advised men against divorcing their wives just because they can’t do basic chores like cooking and washing.
The renowned relationship coach made this known in a recent post he made on his personal social media handle on the popular social media platform, Facebook.
In his view, instead of divorcing her, you should rather help her, teach her, encourage and empower her adding that when you do that, it’s called love and that’s what the bible expects from the husband.
The post he made reads;
“You don’t leave your wife because she can’t cook, you don’t divorce your wife because she can’t wash, iron or take care of the house the way you want it. You rather help her, teach her, encourage and empower her. When you do that, it’s called love and that’s what the bible expects from the husband. Your wife is not a maid or nanny, you didn’t marry her based on the qualification of a maid or nanny but you married her because you loved her.
Wives don’t need husbands who only see the good in them, but the man who also see the bad in them and still wants them; for such a person is the one who truly loves them and is ready to help them become better. Such a wife becomes submissive to you and cannot disrespect you but honour you.”
Source: www.ghgossip.com
