AJ Poundz’s friend introduced her to a man after she competing in Ghana’s Most Beautiful.
She supposed that the man she had met will be the love of her life till death to them part but it all fell apart when she got pregnant and delivered a baby girl.
She recounted her experiences on the Delay Show watched by Ghgossip.com. According to AJ, the man who had emigrated from Ghana to Germany was delighted to learn of her pregnancy, and they both anticipated becoming parents.
However, their disagreement and the man’s mother’s determination to prevent her from marrying his son strained their connection to the point where the man abandoned the child.
“He was so happy I told him about the pregnancy. But he wasn’t there [throughout] the pregnancy,” AJ Poundz said. “He has never been there although he accepted responsibility. He was okay but things changed after I gave birth. When you give birth, the issue goes beyond the individuals; it’s more of a family thing. If the family doesn’t like you, it becomes problematic.”
“They didn’t like me because I was on TV and his mother once told me point-blank that she doesn’t want me to marry her son. The family refused to accept me.”
She described the situation that caused the dad to stop taking care of the child, a situation that left her feeling so shaken that she considered committing suicide. She resisted the baby daddy’s suggestion to send the child to his mother, according to AJ Poundz, realizing it was an attempt to take the child away from her.
“He wanted to only focus on the child and not me but that wouldn’t happen… While we were talking on the phone, he opened the taps, washed his hands and said he was done and I thanked him,” she said, adding that this was a year after the child was born.
“That day, I was in the house of Dr. Kweku Oteng; I nearly killed myself. I was pained. I felt my whole world was crushing.”
The man has yet to see her child nearly nine years after giving birth, but AJ Poundz, who is now wedded to Nana Kwadwo Adu-Boateng, said she was unconcerned.
“He has abandoned the child. But I like it… The last time I heard from him, he begged to see the child. He now reckons I’ve become a public figure. The last time I encountered him, he was in Ghana but I had met my husband…”
When asked if her daughter was aware of the incident, AJ Poundz responded that she was uninformed and that she does not sense an emptiness because “my husband keeps her happy.”
“She has never seen her biological father; she doesn’t know his existence. I’m not bothered because I wasn’t the one that called for it,” the radio and TV personality affirmed.
Source; www.ghgossip.com
