The chief executive officer (CEO), founder, and founder of Eastwood Anaba Ministries (EAM), Eastwood Anaba, has raised concern about how churches are making life difficult for their members.
He gave special attention to marriage counseling, which requires more time. According to Eastwood Anaba, nowadays, people who have decided to be married do not need to go through counseling since they already understand the pros and cons of marriage and do not require any kind of advise.
“Everything in the Church is difficult, even marriage. Look at the number of months you use for counseling before the marriage. Adam and Eve who counseled them? Sofo balance it a little, balance what? Sometimes you balance truth until it becomes nonsense.
Man of God, the reason people need counseling is that they are not Christians. What you are teaching them is not counseling, you are teaching them Christianity. Couples must pray together is it marriage counseling or Christianity? Don’t commit adultery, don’t commit fornication is it marriage counseling or Christianity? Communication, talk to your wife, talk to your husband, they teach people in mumu (Deaf and Dumb) school. Why should I sit two Christians in front of me…
Love your wife, this is not counseling, this is Christianity. Submit to your husband, rebellion against your husband is not marriage counseling, it is Christianity. I realize that two good Christians who know what they are about and they truly love each other can marry without all that long laborious process,” he said in a video that has since gone viral.
Source; www.ghgossip.com
