A Nigerian preacher, Dr. Abel Damina has shed light on why most marriages kick off in anger and bitterness just after having their wedding.
Dr. Abel Damina revealed during a church service that some couples become angry and bitter because the men took loans to organize their wedding ceremony, hence there is a lot of debts to settle during marriage.
According to him, one year into the marriage, the wedded husband is still paying debts and in results there is shortage of funds in the marital home then unhappiness and tension sets.
The astute clergyman also has lashed out young men who intend to lavish 2 million naira on their wedding ceremony claiming they don’t have sense.
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Published by Gistreel.com news, he said;
“You are a young man just starting life but you want to spend N2 million on a wedding, you don’t have sense. The school fees your father spent were wasted. You need to go back to the village to refund the fees. N2 million can set up a good business for you if you have a sense.
That is why people get married and for one year they are still paying debts. So, their marriage starts with bitterness and anger. Everybody is angry because when there is debt to pay and no money to eat, there will be tension in the house. That love will suddenly finish.”
He attributed this decision by men to social media influence.
He further stated,
“Who knows you on Facebook?. Facebook is for faceless people who you don’t even know, yet you want to impress them and make your young man broke.”
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Source:ghgossip.com
